Over the last few years, I have come across some great resources for families, churches, small groups, mentoring, or self-study.
I want to introduce you to HCC Sermon Series
In 2012 HCC focused four weeks of teaching on Building Strong Families. This series was a huge deal, Paul Milson taught authentically and powerfully. The messages were inspiring and they were a little 'ouchy'. But it was a good ouchy! Paul is well read (as you can tell) on this subject, so if you don't have time to read all the books, sermons, resources he recommends at this link: Parenting Resources then listen to Pauls sermons on Equipping Families to Disciple with the Gospel, he sums up this great material very well. Once you have listened you can then you can start on the other resources if you wish. I would highly recommend this series. Paul is a talented communicator, he is amusing and uses great illustrations, that make you feel like those mad days in your family clearly aren't just in your family. They have caused much discussion and open-heart surgery for us as parents.